Marriage Coach Cary
No matter how in love you are and how wonderful your wedding was, you may not be prepared for the challenges that building a life together bring. Whatever stage of marriage you’re at (newlywed to old married couple), it may be dawning on you that the two of you are still different people. It is very common for couples to struggle to get into a good routine together as they work through their gender differences as well as the differences in upbringing, life goals and personality. A marriage coach can provide couples with a solid foundation to start married life off well and keep it that way. Here are some common questions that couples have about marriage coaching and how it can help them.
What should we expect at a Session?
A marriage coach will take the time to get to know both of you and your goals and desires for your marriage by asking open-ended questions and allowing you to talk about the answers together. Your coach will also help you figure out the reason behind any conflicts you are experiencing, so you can move forward with a positive relationship. A marriage coach assumes that you are healthy, capable people who are experiencing common challenges that all married couples face but no one talks about. You may be finding it hard work to be married but that’s what you’ve always been told. Your coach will help you identify and resolve disagreements and provide you with the skills and knowledge to help you address future challenges with love and confidence.
We Are Not Struggling, Do We Need Coaching?
In sports, a coach provides support and encouragement whether a team is winning or losing. A marriage coach does the same. You can come to a marriage coach to work through budgeting questions, set the foundation for proper communication early in your marriage or assist you in setting healthy goals for your future together. Your coach will also help you learn to understand your spouse, what makes them happy and how you can best meet their needs.
How Much Time Does a Session Take?
Before you commit to working with your marriage coach, you will have the opportunity to meet with her to talk about your marital goals and challenges in a free, no obligation session. Even though the challenges spouses face are similar, each couple’s relationship is unique. The particulars of the coaching program (length of time, benefits, format) will be discussed in detail at this session.
If you’re married, or thinking about getting married, and want to know how to do it right, give Lesli a call today and set up an appointment.