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Bad Marriage Advice #2: Don’t Go to Bed Angry
On the surface this seems like a good idea. I mean, who can fall asleep when they are spun out about something. And, if you’re upset with your partner, lying next to them and trying to relax just throws gasoline on the fire already burning inside. It’s how this advice...
Bad Marriage Advice #1: Beware Who is Giving the Advice
Okay, so technically this isn’t specifically bad marriage advice. But if your source is not reliable, then the advice should be taken with a grain (or pile) of salt. Here is some advice that showed up in my In-box last week: "The next time you find yourself in the...
Are You One of the Lucky 30%, or the Unhappy 70%
As a marriage coach I’m often asked about what makes for a happy, successful marriage. It’s fairly easy to identify how many marriages end in divorce. It has consistently remained around 40% for first marriages, 60% for second marriages, and over 70% for third...
Why Your Wife Fantasizes About Being Ravished—And What It Means for You
It's a common fantasy for women... Is your wife one of the 62% of women who want to be ravished? Studies have shown that this desire to be lovingly, yet forcefully taken by her man is one of the top five sexual fantasies women have. And it’s one that can get...
Humiliating Your Husband (or Anyone Else) Isn’t Loving
Just because men as a whole have been privileged, it doesn’t mean an individual man is less deserving of being treated humanely. Especially not one you promised to love, honor, and cherish.
It Takes Two Yeses to Marry But Only One to Divorce
If you aren’t actively taking care of your marriage, it’s at risk of failing. You might think everything is okay, or at least not so bad that you need to take action, but your wife may think otherwise. It doesn’t mean that her perspective is 100% accurate but...
End the Arguing
Stop the Chore Wars
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