Is Your Wife Too Stressed for Physical Intimacy?
“You musn’t force sex to do the work of love or love to do the work of sex.” - Mary Mccarthy Your wife, if she is like most women, is very sensitive to context when it comes to being receptive to your invitations to get physical with you. In the book Come as You Are,...
The #1 Reason Your Wife Says No to Intimacy
“Sexual intimacy is a continuing process of discovery.” – Sheri Stritof You’ve planned the perfect evening. Kids are at your parents. Dinner ordered from her favorite restaurant. You’ve even agreed to watch her favorite rom-com, again. The stars are in alignment and...
The #1 Ingredient You Need for a Successful Marriage
“The great marriages are partnerships. It can’t be a great marriage without being a partnership.” – Helen Mirren You may think that love is the most important ingredient needed for a good marriage but, the Beatle’s notwithstanding, it’s not. Love is necessary but not...
You and Your Wife Will Disagree – Now What?
“Whenever you’re in conflict with someone, there is one factor that can make the difference between damaging your relationship and deepening it. That factor is attitude.” – William James You and your wife are having a disagreement. Whether it turns into conflict is up...
Are You Passing the Marriage Test?
"Marriage is our last best chance to grow up." John Barth I was talking to an old friend the other day. He reached out to get my advice about whether he should get married again. He knows what I do for a living and wanted an “expert” opinion. This would be marriage #3...
Are You Settling in Your Marriage?
“The biggest human temptation is to settle for too little.” Thomas Merton She said, “My husband asked me last week if I still wanted to be married to him. My slightly too long pause gave us both the answer.” I overheard this conversation while waiting for my coffee...