Is “Weaponized Incompetence” Part of Your Marriage?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7QR6gHkDNFwVideo can't be loaded because JavaScript is disabled: Lesli Live | Is "Weaponized Incompetence" Part of Your Marriage? (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7QR6gHkDNFw) Weaponized incompetence, also known as strategic...
Do You Respond Badly to Your Wife’s Criticism?
No one likes criticism. Even if given “constructively”, it hurts. And when it comes from your wife? Even harder. How you respond to it can, and often, does make the situation worse. And this puts your marriage in danger. Yes, she may be exaggerating your actions. Yes,...
BAD MARRIAGE ADVICE #24: HAVING A BABY WILL FIX YOUR MARRIAGE
There is so much wrong with this marriage advice, I don’t even know where to start. Frankly, the only reason you should have a baby is because you want one. A baby is a person, not duct tape. A baby is also completely helpless. Dependent on the adults to make sure it...
Bad Marriage Advice #20: Marriage Counseling Doesn’t Work
I used to get asked all the time what my success rate doing couples counseling was. My answer—100% with couples who were willing and able to do the work and 0% with couples who weren’t. Because I can only provide information. I can’t make someone use it. And neither...
Bad Marriage Advice #19: Relationships are Natural
I still remember my client Sarah bouncing into my office claiming she had an epiphany. I said, “Great, what is it?” She said, “I’ve figured out that relationships aren’t natural.” I smiled and replied, “Where did you get the idea they were?” She is not alone in...End the Arguing
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