Bad Marriage Advice #2: Don’t Go to Bed Angry
On the surface this seems like a good idea. I mean, who can fall asleep when they are spun out about something. And, if you’re upset with your partner, lying next to them and trying to relax just throws gasoline on the fire already burning inside. It’s how this advice...
Bad Marriage Advice #1: Beware Who is Giving the Advice
Okay, so technically this isn’t specifically bad marriage advice. But if your source is not reliable, then the advice should be taken with a grain (or pile) of salt. Here is some advice that showed up in my In-box last week: “The next time you find yourself in...
Humiliating Your Husband (or Anyone Else) Isn’t Loving
Imagine going to a friend’s house for dinner. She’s in the kitchen when you arrive putting the final touches on the salad. And there’s her husband squirting her with a bottle of water when she puts the tomatoes in before the lettuce. And again, when she pours dressing...
If She’s Told You Once, She’s Told You a Thousand Times
The dictionary defines nagging as ‘persistently annoying or finding fault with someone’. Another definition is ‘to annoy someone by constant demands or complaints’. Is this a dynamic in your marriage? If it is, you need to address it now. The longer it goes on, the...
What’s Normal vs. What’s Common in a Long-term Relationship
Do you accept what’s common in your relationship or what’s normal? What’s the difference you say? Normal is defined as “conforming to a type, standard, or regular pattern”. One definition for common is “widely existing, general, prevalent”. Something can be both...End the Arguing
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