by Lesli Doares | Aug 26, 2022 | Emotional Needs
While forgiveness is both important and necessary for a healthy marriage, it’s not as simple as this expression implies. Forgiveness is a process and cannot be rushed. In addition, it may not be possible or even desirable to “forget” an incident that requires...
by Lesli Doares | Aug 12, 2022 | Emotional Needs
If your spouse truly loved you, you wouldn’t need anyone else in your life to fulfill any of your needs. Sounds good, doesn’t it? The two of you wrapped in a bubble of complete bliss and contentment, needing no one or nothing outside of it? Blech!!!! Who comes up with...
by Lesli Doares | Jan 14, 2022 | Communication
Have you ever found yourself feeling unfairly attacked and feel like you “have” to defend yourself? That you need to go toe to toe with someone and then try to justify your behavior when it doesn’t go the way you planned? Maybe it’s happened in your marriage, in your...
by Lesli Doares | Nov 5, 2021 | Emotional Needs
Here’s the scenario—your wife is on the verge of, or actually in, tears. You’re finding it difficult to not only understand what she’s saying but to even understand why she is upset. In your mind, she is blowing the situation out of proportion, but you know better...
by Lesli Doares | Oct 29, 2021 | Intimacy
How often do you think about your skill as a lover? Thinking about it too much can paralyze you. And thinking about it too little can result in frustration for your partner. Finding that sweet spot can mean the difference between just an “okay” sex life and a great...